No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it's not necessary
to be devastatingly attractive, rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes.
To master the fine art of flirting, follow these simple guidelines and you will
be on your way to being the best flirt in town. You should now be confident
enough to try flirting. If you aren't go back and try again.
Give out the right signals
Be sure, and this is very important, that you give out the right signals.
If you are interested in some one enough to want to take it further then just
flirting then flirt like mad. However if you are flirting just for the fun
of it (and there is nothing wrong with this and most women flirt just for
fun) make sure that you the man knows this, and that your body language ain't
telling him otherwise. Also some men, in fact most men can be a bit on the
slow side when it comes to reading into what a women wants, which may mean
you might have to spell it out for him.
Dress for the eye
If you want someone to approach you it is much easier if you're wearing a
conversation starter (i.e. a badge, a crazy wig.) This will also show that
you have a funny side. If you are trying to attract the attention of the office
hunk wear a bit more make-up and a skirt that reveals a little bit of leg,
(but not short enough to reveal show panty's.)
Feel good about yourself
Positive actions and feelings can be contagious. Feel good about yourself, about what you wear, about
your hair and others will feel good about you.
Get eye contact
Now some people might take offence if you stare at them for a long period
of time. Let the guy know you are trying to catch his eye then when you hold
his gaze give a gentle smile and let your eyes drop to the floor. He won't
feel intimidated and he will know that you are interested.
Smile
This shows friendliness and self-confidence, which is viewed as one of the
most attractive qualities a member of the opposite sex can have.
Who's watching
Walk though a group of men and have your friends watch to see who is checking
you out.
Mingle
Walk about and mingle with people. Get to know friends of the guy you are
trying to attract. You could even ask them a question or two about the guy.
(But don't over do it you don't want to sound desperate or to keen.)
Separate yourself from friends
Take time out to be alone for a bit. This will make you more approachable.
Men some times feel awkward approaching a woman when she is in a crowd of
other women in case of rejection.
Be polite
If you aren't interested in a guy, be polite when you reject him. It takes
a lot of courage to approach someone so be sure you turn him down in the
way that you would appreciate being turned down.
Have a conversation starter ready
It is know good approaching a man if you don't know what you are going to
start the conversation off with. You could start with a witty line such
as "great tie may I buy it from you when you are finished with it?"
Or you could simply start with your name, but remember to back it up. He
might be just as nervous as you.
Boost his ego
A little flattery never hurt any body. Men have always used flattery on
women to get what they want so why can't we women. This is one of the best
ways of flirting. Boost that mans ego and you will have him drinking water
from your stilettos. (Yes please.) If he has gorgeous eyes, great head of
hair, is well groomed, tell him. We like to be complimented and so do men
so go on. Flattery gets you every where.
Be interested
Ask him lots of open-ended questions. Ask him his interests, what he does
for a living (but remember a man might think you are really interested in
how much he earns not what he does.) You may find that you have a lot in
common other then physical attraction.
