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Flirting with Effective Body Language
Body language
This is the language where you don't need any words. Women have been doing it
for hundreds of years to attract the man they want. Becoming fluent in body
language will ensure that you will be skilled in attracting the right man and
sending the get-lost signal to the wrong man.
Eyeing up the prize
The more eye contact
you establish with the target, the better. Start with some sidelong glances.
Then, begin with direct eye contact. Once he turns to meet your gaze, immediately
lower your eyes and smile to yourself, this will tell him that you were watching
him and are embarrassed that he caught you - a sure sign of interest. Next,
be bold and try holding his stare, flashing a small, open-lipped smile.
If there is a man that is giving you the eyes and you are not
interested look away from him and don't look back at him again. When in conversation,
looking at the ceiling and all around the room also shows a definite lack of
interest.
First impressions
count
You leave your home ready to go to a party when you spot
your gorgeous neighbour and he doesn't give you a second glance. Why? Because
you aren't dressed your best. When you entering a room most people look to see
who has come in. This is when you have to make an impression. Looking your
best will make you feel your best. So make sure that before you leave your front
door look your best, and you never know you might just attract the attention
of that gorgeous neighbour.
The hand job (no
not what you are thinking)
Even without direct contact, your hands can send very
powerful messages. There are a number of ways to convey that you want to get
to know someone. Keeping your hands unclenched shows you're open to him. Using
your hands to caress objects, such as the rim of your glass, locks of your hair,
or the sleeve of your blouse, in a rhythmic (as opposed to fidgety) manner,
can be a sensual act. And for the braver hands, try picking fluff off his jacket,
touching him to punctuate a point, or using the "accidental touch" when reaching
for the salt.
Hands that are jammed in pockets, busy cleaning glasses, or balled
in tight fists are all bad signs. Fingers tapping, drumming, pointing, or wagging
are also signals to move on.
Stand out
Your posture is one of the most telling signals you transmit.
An open posture is evidence of an open person. Turning your body toward the
man you're conversing with, keeping your feet flat on the floor and leaning
forward are actions that show interest. As well, slightly tilting your head,
crossing and uncrossing your legs, and thrusting your chest forward give the
message that you are interested.
As for ways to send a man packing, crossing your arms, holding
a drink high in front of you, turning your body away or resting your feet on
their toes will tell a person you are not interested.
A few extra tips
Hopefully by now, you have an attack plan and a clear
idea of when it's time to get down and dirty or when you're best just to wave
the white flag. Here are just a few more tips when trying to perfect your body
language skills:
- You'll know things are going really well when you begin "mirroring" one
another's body language and gestures.
- Don't tease him by offering more than you plan to follow through. This
can lead to very ugly circumstances
- Chain smoking, being extremely intoxicated, or having eyes only for your
plate of food will not put you in the best standing for the body language
game.
- If you try your hand at it, and he's not responding, abort the mission
immediately.…
- Following him around all night will only serve in making you look needy
and desperate.
And finally, if all else fails, buy yourself a T-shirt that reads, "Looking
for Love."
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